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YOU NEVER GO BACKWARDS.

Updated: Jun 29


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There are times when you feel like you take 2 steps forward, 3 steps back..m

Just when you think you’ve got it all figured out and can relax, there’s another fall!


You may feel like we’ve forgotten everything you’ve grown through and are back in a pit of being confused, low, exhausted &/or anxious...


You think, what is the point of even trying!


Here’s the thing ~ Going backwards is not a possibility, you never go backwards. What you do however, is revisit old stuff that still needs some clearing out. Old beliefs that need further dissolving.

This is not to say that it doesn’t feel uncomfortable at times, but you will come through it… clearer & wiser every time.

During these confusing points, it’s time to surrender even more to what is, to look after the self & rest if the body is asking for that.

Giving yourself permission to just be and not need to figure anything out.

Any trying to get in there and get out of it just pulls you further into the confusion anyway so let yourselve off the hook.


Check it out next time it happens, how do you feel once clarity resumes?

Lighter.

Focused.

Wiser.

Humble.

Grateful.


Or simply relieved.

Remember, we never go backwards. We are simply in the process of seeing deeper truths and yes in the midst of this, it can look and feel messy.


With Love.


❤️


FEEL FREE TO COMMENT OR ASK QUESTIONS BELOW.

 
 
 

6 Comments


Lucie Richer
Lucie Richer
Jun 01, 2022

This is exactly how I've been feeling lately, thank you Jolene for making me realise that this is normal and that I'm not going backwards 🙏❤️

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Jolene O'Brien
Jolene O'Brien
Jun 01, 2022
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You’re so welcome. Yup, backwards is not possible 😊🙏🏻❤️

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Flory Stepa
Flory Stepa
Apr 12, 2022

Thank you for this timely message! I am resting in my mess now! For weeks wondering if this is to stop me or to find clarity in moving forward. 😌 now I UNDERSTAND I’m not going backwards 💞

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Jolene O'Brien
Jolene O'Brien
Apr 12, 2022
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You’re so very welcome Flory. All is well. Thank you for sharing what you’re seeing, it’s lovely to hear 💕🌸

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Christine Behan
Apr 12, 2022

Brilliant reassurance 💜💕

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Jolene O'Brien
Jolene O'Brien
Apr 12, 2022
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🙏🏻🌸💕

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