CONSCIOUS CONNECTION.

In the conscious relationship where both are aware of their True Nature and that ego may present triggers and subsequent pain. Rather than viewing the other with blame, there is an awareness, understanding and deep compassion in both.

The triggered side, who may be feeling deep suffering no longer lashes out but knows that ego is at play. This does not mean that all pain is automatically gone but there is an observation rather than reaction.

If the other holds compassionate space and love while the triggered one grows from whatever is still resonating from a past conditioned wound, this creates a safe space which is an ideal healing ground.

In this, both can grow into their authentic selves while feeling held as both are assisting the other.

When one or both parties do not understand this dynamic or the one who is not triggered at this time is not fully in the heart, this can leave the other feeling unsafe, in deep suffering and alone. Which can create situations from as small as a petty argument right through to a complete breakdown of the relationship.

The unconscious couple (which may be one or both) usually starts off with a honeymoon phase which gradually goes downhill, they try to cling to what they had at the start and are confused that ‘it’s not the same’, they also quite often blame the other which creates resentment ~ you can see the spiral!

While the conscious couple hold each other through, both knowing when ego is present.

This isn’t to say it’s ‘all roses’ either, there can be deep suffering, confusion, tears and pain. However all is discussed, held and allowed with a mature heart.

When a partner feels safe through compassionate understanding and both are deeply honest, they are free to be open about the particular trigger/s and pain without time limits or restriction. This is when a relationship will grow and blossom into all you’ve ever wanted.

(This dynamic does not only apply to romantic relationships. This is what a Realised guide can assist you with).

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